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Dear Reader,
A good friend of mine sent me an email, after reading it I was inspired to ask, "What's going to be your new normal? And would you share your story with me and my readers?" Along my own journey in life I've had to adjust to new normals along the way. Some of them are good changes and easy to take. Some of them have really caught me off guard, and they turned my life upside down. So the challenge was to find a way to make peace with my new "normal."
Thanks for sharing your story Marshall...
I will never forget the impact.
I saw the truck coming, fast, but I had already committed to crossing the street. It was my mistake. He had the right of way, but surely he'd slow down when he saw us.
He didn't slow down. I didn't beat him. He hit us broadside, "t-boned" us. I shall hear and feel the impact forever.
I had three reactions almost simultaneously:
He actually hit us!!
I've killed my wife.
I can't breathe.
Worst moment of my life? Gotta be way ahead of second place.
Ellen was unconscious and covered with blood. I later figured out that my side airbag had deployed and was immediately punctured by the high grill of the pickup truck. It popped a panel, which flew past me and hit Ellen in the head, shattering her left eye socket, knocking her out, and giving her a brain concussion.
We'd been pushed into a ditch. First responders were able to get Ellen out through the door on her side. They had to use the jaws of life to pry me out.
I had two collapsed lungs, nine fractured ribs, a fractured sternum, a fractured pelvis, and a compression fracture in my lower spine. One of the fellows in the ambulance that transported us to the Spearfish, South Dakota hospital and then immediately on to the Rapid City Regional Center apparently put my chances of survival at 50/50. I'm just as glad I didn't know that until later.
As for our dear RAV-4, which gave its life for us, it's buried in Deadwood SD, near Wild Bill Hickok and Calamity Jane.
I believe that blessings spring forth from tragedies. We'd already had four:
1) We were both alive, at least for the moment.
2) Within two hours of the collision, son Jeremiah, his wife Kim, and their six-year-old daughter Lily had packed up "The Orange Peel" (Lily's name for their Prius) and were heading from Wisconsin to be with us and help us. Turns out they helped a LOT.
3) Ellen doesn't remember anything about the accident.
4) We were heading home to Madison, having already enjoyed our wonderful road trip out to the Oregon Coast, Portland, Spokane, and Okanogan, Washington, visiting friends and family.
As I write this, five months have passed since that split second that changed our lives forever. Blessings kept appearing and continue until the present day. The saga continues.
Ellen has had two successful surgeries on her eye, her sight has been restored, and she can drive a car again.
My shattered bones have all healed, and I was four sessions away from graduating from physical therapy. But two falls sent me back to the hospital at the end of October, and there they discovered another compression fracture in the spine and, much more seriously, a staph infection in my blood stream.
Wicked staff. Within a week, I could no longer walk.
I've been in intense pain. There have been times when I thought I wouldn't make it through the night. But I'm getting better, the pain is abating, and I'm optimistic most of the time. Saturday I walked 40 feet using only a walker, and after I rested, I walked the 40 feet back. This was huge!
I measure my progress in baby steps--being able to do wheelchair push-ups, going 15 minutes on the exercise bike without stopping, being able to perform a "stand and pivot" to get from the bed to the wheelchair. I know I won't be home for Christmas. I don't know if I'll ever be going back to that home.
I don't know what Ellen's and my new "normal" will be.
But I continue to look forward and to find new blessings every day. I don't ask "Why me?" as if some people could or should be immune to life's worst experiences.
I can read, and I can write. (For a long time I didn't have enough strength to sit up and push the keys), I might get to continue my newsletter, scripting and performing my radio show, doing my little bit for the Odyssey Project, volunteering at church.
And I might not--in which case I'll look for other things I can do. I have a wonderful family and great friends, whose love and loyalty I couldn't hope to earn and probably wouldn't have survived without. People I don't even know are praying for me.
When the sun comes up on a new day, I say, "Thank you."
-- Marshall J. Cook
You can reach Marshall at: [email protected]
The Author Marshall Cook...
Marshall's new novel is called Glorious. It takes place in a small town in Wisconsin in 1986 and takes off when first year high school student Norah Stoddard decides she wants to try out for the men's baseball team. (There's only a woman's "club" for her.)
Marshall also publishes a newsletter, Extra Innings. If you'd like to find out more about it, ask him when you email and say hello.
Thanks for reading with me. It's so good to read with friends.
Suzanne Beecher
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