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Dear Reader,
(Suzanne is on vacation this week.)
Please welcome Allegra Jordan, author of the World War I novel The End of Innocence to the book club. Allegra graduated from Harvard Business School with honors and works at the intersection of innovation and community building. She is a regular columnist for mariashriver.com and her work has appeared in USA Today, TEDx, among other places. She curates a top-ranked reconciliation poetry website and has served as a volunteer for Angelina Atyam's reconciliation organizations in Uganda since 2010.
Allegra would love to hear from you and she's giving away copies of her book, The End of Innocence. Email: [email protected] (Please be sure to include your preferred shipping address, in case you're a winner.)
Thanks for welcoming the authors who are filling in for me while I'm on vacation. I sure do appreciate it.
Take it away, Allegra Jordan...
Bitter Root Ceremony By Allegra Jordan
I enjoy reading, collecting, and sharing stories about communities that do the right thing in the face of terrible facts. I like to learn about people who shock the world with crazy-brilliant actions steeped in love. I try to let my mind rest on these things, especially during times when the news of the world is cynical and bleak.
One of my personal heroines is the great Angelina Atyam, who I met at her jungle home in Northern Uganda. Angelina was a housewife in the 1990s when her life was interrupted. Rebels from the Lord's Resistance Army kidnapped her daughter. Many powerful people in Northern Uganda felt the horror of having their children kidnapped or worse. The typical solutions, military might, would only get their children killed as the children were used as human shields.
Angelina persuaded a small team of people to offer reconciliation to the rebels in exchange for the unconditional surrender of all children. She set up radio stations in the jungle proclaiming reconciliation and love for the rebels, but with the condition that they must give up the children.
The rebels didn't like this solution at all. They were used to dealing with hate from people they'd hurt, but not love. Early in her daughter's captivity the rebels offered her daughter back to her if Angelina would just stop talking. Angelina refused. "Every child is my child," she insisted. Even so, the rebels did not kill her daughter who miraculously escaped.
Many never used that path she offered. For those who chose restoration, Angelina advocated for a simple "bitter root" ceremony. Here's how it worked:
After a period of mediation, two enemy sides meet and boil a calabash root in water. This creates a bitter tea. The perpetrator explains what he has done, shows remorse, and makes restitution. He then drinks the bitter tea to show people he tastes the bitterness of his action.
The surprise to me was that the offended party also drinks the tea from the bitter root. "It's bitter to give up your anger," says Angelina. "But this is the anger that will turn you on the inside into salt. To live, you have to give up it up." The ceremony allows both parties to live into a healthy future on even footing.
Angelina Atyam won the U.N. Human Rights Prize in 1998 for showing the world a radically different approach. She showed the world a different way to resolve terrible conflict.
We often don't have choices about the facts we are given. We can't make others' choices for them. We do have choices about who we want to become in light of terrible facts. Great leaders and thriving communities find a way to help all live into a new future, and this is a fact worth celebrating and sharing.
--Allegra Jordan
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Thanks for reading with me. It's so good to read with friends.
The vacationing,
Suzanne Beecher
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AUTHORBUZZ: THE LAST SAVANNA by Mike Bond
This is my personal story of fighting elephant poachers in Kenya, and of my love for our humanity's ancient heartland, its people and animals, and the lonely beauty of its dangerous deserts, jungles and savannas. It is also a passionate tale of a man's love for a woman he can never have, and a testament to the magnificent animals we are about to lose forever.
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